CHILD SUPPORT SHOULD BE ILLEGAL

CHILD SUPPORT SHOULD BE ILLEGAL. I KNOW YOUR SAYING TO YOURSELF  SHE 'S CRAZY WHY WOULD SUPPORTING YOUR OWN CHILD BE ILLEGAL. WELL THE REASON I STRONGLY BELIEVE THIS IS BECAUSE WHILE SUPPORTING YOUR CHILD IS YOUR OBLIGATION WHETHER YOU DECIDED TO HAVE A CHILD OR NOT THE SYSTEM IS DESIGNED TO LEAVE THE NON CUSTODIAL PARENT IN THE GUTTER. NOW HOW CAN IT BE LEGAL FOR A HEARING EXAMINER TO TELL YOU IF YOU CANT AFFORD YOUR APARTMENT THEN MOVEOR GO TO A SHELTER. IF YOURE LIKE ME HOW MUCH CHEAPER OR "REASONABLE" DOES IT GET THEN NYCHA AND WE ALREADY WHAT THE SHELTER SYSTEM IS LIKE DISGUSTINGLY DIRTY ALL KINDS OF DISEASES AND YOUR WIND UP GOING AROUND IN CIRCLES TRYING TO GET OUT. HOW CAN YOU FOCUS ON YOUR JOB YOUR LIFE  YOUR WELL BEING IF YOUR DEPRESSEDE AND WORRIED ABOUT WHERE YOU'RE GOING TO LAY YOUR HEAD TO REST OR WILL I HAVE ENOUGH TO EAT THIS WEEK. YOU CANT MAKE FUTURE PLANS, OR EVEN GO TO A SIMPLE MOVIE. FORGET ABOUT ASKING YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY BECAUSE THEY ARE JUST AS TIRED AS YOU, THEY DONT WANT TO HEAR IT ANYMORE YOU KNOW THOSE FAMOUS WORDS "CAN I GET A COUPLE OF DOLLARS UNTIL NEXT PAY DAY" KNOW ING HEY WILL NEVER SEE IT AGAIN. ITS HARD TO WALK AROUND WITH YOUR HEAD HELD HIGH WHEN YOU FEEL SO LOW. NOW DON'T GET ME WRONG I KNOW AS CHILDREWN GROW UP THEIR NEEDS CHANGE AND IT BECOMES MORE COSTLY TO TAKE CARE OF THEM BUT HOW CAN YOU TAKE CARE OF YOUR CHILD OR CHILDREN WHEN YOU HAVED A MIGRAINE FROM YOUR PRESSURE BEING SO HIGH UP OR YOUR SO STRESSED THAT YOU START DEVELOPING HEALTH ISSUES THAT MAKE YOU SO SICK YOU WIND UP IN THE HOSPITAL. WHAT GOOD ARE YOU TO YOUR CHILDREN WHEN YOU CAN EVEN THROW A BALL WITH THEM OR TAKE THEM TO A MOVIE. WHY ARE WE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR OUR ACTIONS WHILE THE "CUSTODIAL PARENTS ARE COLLECTING THE CHECK AND NOT LETTING YOU SEE YOU'RE OWN CHILD OR ALLOW YOU TO SPEAK TO THEM JUST TO SAY HELLO. WHY IS IT THAT WHEN YOU GO TO COURT THEY ONLY LOOK AT YOUR PAYSTUB, WHERE'S THE OTHER PARTY'S PAYSUB. TAKING CARE OF A CHILD SHOULD BE A 50/50 THING BECAUSE WHILE YOU'RE WALKING AROUND IN THE SAME SHOES FRO TWO OR THREE YEARS THE OTHER PERSON FILLED UP THEIR WARDROBE WITH THIS YEARS LATEST. BESIDES THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER IS THAT "MOST" OF US NON CUSTODIAL PARENTS KNOEW WHAT WE HAVE TO DO AND WERE PROBABLY TAKING CARE OF OUR RESPONSIBILITY BUT THE OTHER PARENT GOT SPITEFUL AFETR A BIG ARGUMENT AND TOOK US TO THE MAN/WOMAN TO PROVE A LESSON KNOW THAT IF THE SHOE WAS ON THE OTHER FOOT THEY WOULD ENJOY BEING IN OUR SHOES, THEY WOULD BE BITCHING AND COMPLAINING AND PROBABLY PLEADING TO BE TAKEN OFF THIS CHILD SUPPORT MADNESS. THIS NEVER ENDING ROLLER COASTER RIDE IS CRAZY. THIS CHILD SUPPORT IS RUINING LIVES ITS MAKING TWENTY YRS OLD LOOK LIKE THEY'RE FORTY WITH ALL THE GRAY HAIRS. SO YES CHILD SUPPORT SHOULD BE ILLEGAL. IT SHOULD BE ILLEGAL TO RUIN MY LIFE JUST TO MAINTAIN HIS LIFE BECAUSE WE ALL KNOW ONLY A SMALL PORTION GOES TO THE KIDS WHILE THE MAJORITY GOES TO HIM BECAUSE HE NEEDS HIS CIGARETTES MONEY TO ENTERTAIN HIS WOMEN AND SELF ENTERTAINMENT. WHILE MY CHILDREN WALK AROUND WITH TIGHT CLOTHES, SHOES AND SNEAKERS THAT DONT FIT AND GIVEN THE ALL MIGHTY EXCUSE" I DON'T HAVE ANY MONEY FOR A GAME". I SAY WE PUT ALL OUR CARDS ON THE TABLE, REVIEW MY EXPENSES AND AFTER WE TAKE OUT HOW MUCH I NEED TO PAY MY RENT MY PHONE MY MEDS AND GROCERIES THEN WE SEE HOW MUCH I CAN AFFORD TO GIVE. UNFORTUNATELY FOR NOW THE SYSTEM IS ROBBING US BLIND AND THE SAD PART IS FOR NOW THERE'S NOTHING WE CAN DO BECAUSE YOU CAN DEFEND YOURSELF AGAINST A PERSON ROBBING YOU BUT THE SYSTEM YOU JUST SIT THERE AND WATCH IT HAPPEN.