CRIPPLED BY THE SYSTEM

WITH THE WAY THE SYSTEM IS GOING I FOR SEE ALOT OF REDUCED FARE PASSES AND HANDICAP PERMITS FOR NONCUSTODIAL PARENTS. REALLY WHAT THE SYSTEM IS DOING IS HANDICAPPING US AND NOT ALLOWING US TO BE ABLE TO PROVIDE FORE OUR CHILDREN. HOW DOES ONE PROVIDE A MEAL FOR THEIR CHILD AND SAY NO ITS OK I DON'T HAVE TO EAT. YOU'RE WRONG IF YOU DON'T EAT AT SOME POINT IN TIME YOU WILL BECOME SO SICK THAT YOUR CHILD WONT BE ABLE TO EAT EITHER. WAY  MUST STAY STRONG AND OF WELL MIND IN ORDER TO MAKE SURE THAT OUR CHILDREN STAY AS NOURISHED AS US. UNFORTUNATELY THE SYSTEM COULD CARE LESS WHERE YOUR NEXT MEAL COMES FROM, CAN YOU PAY YOUR BASIC BILLS, DO YOU HAVE A ROOF OVER YOUR HEAD THAT YOU CAN CALL HOME, CAN YOU GO TO THE GROCERY STORE AND BUY A DECENT AMOUNT OF FOOD THAT WILL CARRY YOU THROUGH THE WEEK. NONE OF THESE CONCERNS ARE TAKEN INTO CONSIDERATION WHEN ATTACKING THE NONCUSTODIAL PARENTS. THAT'S WHY ALOT OF FATHERS AND MOTHERS ARE RUNNING FROM THE RESPONSIBILITY OF BEING IN THEIR CHILD'S LIFE. NOW THE CHILD SUFFERS BECAUSE THIS "CHILD SUPPORT MONSTER" IS BEING DANGLED OVER THEIR HEAD AND THEY DON'T SEE ANY OTHER WAY OUT. IT ALSO ATTACKS US MENTALLY WE CONTEMPLATE OK HOW CAN THIS PERSON BE TAKEN OUT AND PERMANENTLY OUT OF MY LIFE WHICH ULTIMATELY GUESS WHAT ONLY PERSON REALLY AFFECTED IS YOUR CHILD. WHY ISN'T THE SYSTEM PULLING TOGETHER TO LOOK OUT FOR THE BEST INTEREST OF ALL PARTIES INVOLVED. HOW CAN THEY CONSIDER THAT THE ONLY CONCERN IS THE BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD. I MEAN HELL ITS CALLED FAMILY COURT NOT ADOLESCENT COURT. THEY SHOULD BE LOOKING AT THE FAMILY FINANCES ON BOTH SIDES AND ALL INCOMES BE TAKEN INTO CONSIDERATION. ESPECIALLY WHEN CUSTODIAL PARENTS GO AND APPLY FOR OTHER OUTSIDE INCOME SUCH AS SSI, WELFARE, FOOD STAMPS, RECEIVE VETERANS BENEFITS, ETC ETC. I MEAN DOES ANYONE ELSE AGREE WITH ME LIKE DOES YOUR KIDS EVEN NEED THAT MUCH MONEY A MONTH AND DOESN'T IT SEEM LIKE THE CUSTODIAL PARENT IS GETTING OVER LIKE A PHAT RAT. WHERES THE JUSTICE IN THAT. WHY DOESN'T THE HEARING EXAMINER FAIL TO SEE THAT SOMEWHERE DOWN THE LINE THEY ARE DOING MORE HARM THAN GOOD BY ENFORCING THESE RULES AND REGULATIONS THAT FORCE THE NONCUSTODIAL PARENT INTO POVERTY WHILE THE NONCUSTODIAL PARENT WALKS AROUND WITH ALL THEIR NEEDS MET AND THE CHILDREN NEVER SEE OR BENEFIT FROM THE SACRIFICES THEIR PARENT IS BEING FORCED INTO. WE NONCUSTODIAL PARENTS POPULAR TO OTHER BELIEFS LOVE OUR CHILDREN AND WHAT THE BEST FOR THEM MAYBE EVEN BETTER THAN WE HAD NUT WITH THESE LAWS THE WAY THEY ARE NONCUSTODIAL PARENTS ARE MISSING OUT ON THE JOY OF BEING PARENTS BECAUSE WE ARE DROWNING IN A GLASS OF WATER AND NO ONE IS THROWING US A LIFESAVER.