SURVIVING ON NOTHING

        MAKING ENDS MEET IS A REAL STRUGGLE THESE DAYS. IVE BECOME A REAL LIFE CIRCUS JUGGLER. EVERY TWO WEEKS I HAVE TO PICK AND CHOOSE WHAT DO I PAY OR NOT PAY, CAN I GET SOME GROCERIES OR DO I SIMPLY WAIT TIL NEXT WEEK. WHILE THE HEARING EXAMINER SITS AT HOME LOOKING DOWN AT THE REST OF US. I KNOW THAT THE CHOICES I MADE ARE MY BURDEN TO CARRY BUT IF I WOULDVE HAD A CRYSTAL BALL TO TELL ME THE FUTURE. THIS CHOICE WOULD HAVE NEVER CAME TO LIGHT. ONLY GOD IS STRONG ENOUGH TO TAKE ME OUT OF THE GRIPS OF THIS ENEMY BECAUSE THIS BATTLE WILL ONLY BE WON BY PRAYER.

IMMATURE ADULTS

I HAVE TO ASK, HOW IS IT THAT MY EX CAN ACT AS IF I DID SOMETHING WRONG TO HIM WHEN HE'S GETTING 75% OF MY DAMN INCOME. I CALLED MY DAUGHTER YESTERDAY FOR HER BDAY AND ASKED HER WHAT DID SHE GET FOR HER BDAY SHE SAID NOTHING NO CAKE NO PRESENT NOO CARD. SO I ASKED HER TO PUT HER DAD ON THE PHONE HE WAS LIKE DON'T EVEN THINK OF GIVING ME THE PHONE. SO I TOLD HER TO PUT ME ON SPEAKER AND TALKED TO HIM ANYWAY. LONG STORY SHORT IT WON'T BE HAPPENING AGAIN. LIKE REALLY WHY BE SO IMMATURE WE ARE BOTH RAISING THESE KIDS SO WHY CAN'T WE BE MATURE ADULTS WHEN IT COMES TO DEALING WITH THE KIDS. I MEAN REALLY AT THE AGE OF 52 OU CANT CARRY ON A CONVERSATION WITH YOUR EX WIFE WHO YOU'RE STEALING FROM LEGALLY. I'M THE ONE THAT SHOULD HAVE AN ATTITUDE. I,M THE ONE LOSING MY STUFF UNABLE TO AFFORD TO GO OUT, BUY GROCERIES, PAY MY BILLS ETC AND THIS IMMATURE IDIOT HAS THE NERVE TO TELL OUR KIDS "I'M NOT SPEAKING TO YOUR MOTHER" REALLY DUDE YOU SERIOUSLY NEED TO GROW THE HELL UP.

MAKING SACRIFICES COST AN ARM AND A LEG

SO AS MY SITUATION WORSENS I HAVE COME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT NICE GUYS FINISH LAST. AS A MOM IT WAS HARD FOR ME TO LET MY KIDS GO LIVE WITH THEIR DAD. I DIDN'T NEED TIME AWAY FROM THEM OR COULDN'T CARE FOR THEM, I JUST SIMPLY BELIEVED ALL THE STORIES MY EX FED ME. TEXAS HAS BETTER SCHOOLS, BETTER LIVING AND BETTER OPPORTUNITIES FOR THEM. SO NATURALLY AS I PUT MY FEELINGS ASIDE I ALLOWED MY KIDS TO GO SINCE I LIVED IN THE PROJECTS AND MY JOB WAS SO DEMANDING WITH MY WEIRD HOURS I THOUGHT IT WAS THE RIGHT THING TO DO. NOW I AM TEN SECONDS AWAY FROM BEING HOMELESS, MY BILLS ARE SUFFERING AND I HAVE TO MAKE CHOICES WHETHER TO EAT BUY MEDICINE OR PAY A BILL. HOW DID IT COME TO THIS? WHY AM BEING PUNISHED FOR SACRIFICING MY FEELINGS? THE CHILD SUPPORT SYSTEM IS SO CRUEL. ALL I WANTED TO DO WAS MAKE SURE MY CHILDREN HAD A BETTER OPPORTUNITY THAN I DID AND I GOT SCREWED OVER BY MY EX HUSBAND AND THE CHILD SUPPORT SYSTEM. IT HAS TO BE ILLEGAL TO LEAVE NON CUSTODIAL PARENTS IN THE STREET. SOMETHING NEEDS TO BE DONE TO CHANGE THE SYSTEM. WE  ARE BEING ROBBED OF A ROOF OVER OUR HEAD AND BASIC NECESSITIES . WE ARE LOVING CARING PARENTS THAT DESERVE BETTER.

RAPED BY THE SYSTEM

HELLO AND WELCOME TO REAL WOMAN. REAL MEN AGAINST CHILD SUPPORT. I CREATED THIS BLOG TO MAKE PEOPLE AWARE OF THE INJUSTICE OF THE FAMILY COURT SYSTEM AGAINST NON CUSTODIAL PARENTS. I AM A WOMAN PAYING CHILD SUPPORT. I WAS TAKEN TO COURT BY THE STATE OF TEXAS AND WAS LITERALLY RAPED BY THE AMOUNT OF MONEY THAT IS BEING TAKEN OUT . HOW DO THEY COME UP WITH THESE NUMBERS. WHY DO THEY FEEL THAT THEY MUST TAKE OUT SO MUCH MONEY AND LEAVE YOU WITH BARELY ENOUGH TO EAT A PLACE TO STAY AND BASIC NECESSITIES. HOW DO YOU TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF AND WITHOUT MONEY? WE DONT HAVE ANYONE TO FALL BACK ON WE CANT BORROW BECAUSE WE CANT AFFORD TO PAY IT BACK. NOW I WAS TAKING CARE OF MY THREE CHILDREN AND MY EX NEVER REPORTED IT TO THE WELFARE WORKER. NOW I HAVE TO PAY FOR IT. I AM LITERALLY SUFFERING SOMEDAYS I CANT GET GROCERIES, IM BEING EVICTED AND THE HEARING EXAMINER TOLD ME OH WELL GET A CHEAPER PLACE. COME ON I ALREADY LIVE IN THE CHEAPEST PLACE IN NEW YORK AFTER THIS IS A SHELTER OR THE STREETS. I'M REALLY TIRED OF THE WHOLE SYSTEM TIRED OF TAKING IT SITTING DOWN. WE NEED A CHANGE WE NEED SOME RWLIEF WE NEED TO BE HEARD AND MOST IMPORTANTLY WE NEED TO LIVE JUST AS COMFORTABLE AS OUR CHILDREN.